"I asked you to clarify in my #67 that you disavow the violent actions of your mother and grandmother "over much less." You did not disavow the violence with which you were raised. You have condoned their violent responses throughout this thread."
Yes, they were lesser offenses. No, the violence was not the result of disagreements, minor or otherwise. It was in response to abusive, yet non life threatening, behavior. As you've already been told.
Your failure to understand my position is not the result of poor logic on my part. You are simply not able to see past your own false premise: That a lesser event than this one must be a small issue or a simple disagreement.
You're really not in a position to talk about anyone else's upbringing given the foolishness you are currently demonstrating in your failure to comprehend rather basic logic. Someone failed in their attempts to ensure you received a satisfactory education, it seems.