Drudge Retort: The Other Side of the News
Thursday, January 10, 2019

How come there is a rising trend in Western men preferring more and more Asian women in terms of relationship & marriage? We joined the founder Johanna for an interview. Her well-known portal operated within this niche for almost a decade with great success. In talking with her, we gained some very interesting insights about the mindset from Asian women as well as from Western men!

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That's easy. They act more like women.

#1 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 09:02 AM | Reply | Funny: 1 | Newsworthy 2

In the case of a man I know well, to find someone who won't complain when she is mistreated.

#2 | Posted by Zed at 2019-01-10 09:16 AM | Reply | Funny: 1 | Newsworthy 1

#2,

There's a fine line Zed. You going to the other extreme end doesnt help.

The feminist movement has taken the "woman" out of our women.

Why is it a surprise when a man doesnt want to compete while in a relationship?

There are gender roles for a reason.

#3 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 09:19 AM | Reply | Funny: 1 | Newsworthy 1

"a man doesnt want to compete while in a relationship"

Don't go out into the sun, snowflake.

#4 | Posted by Danforth at 2019-01-10 09:21 AM | Reply

"There are gender roles for a reason."

Only for the insecure men. Secure men aren't threatened by successful women.

And why are American men seeking Asian women? Pretty obviously, they think they are "buying" a woman who will obey them and be subservient to them. Also, attractive American women won't pay any attention to them.

#5 | Posted by danni at 2019-01-10 09:23 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

I like strong women, who like strong men. It's worked out.

#6 | Posted by Zed at 2019-01-10 09:23 AM | Reply

I know of two guys who married brides from Asia. They are well likeable people and neither were abusive. My observations lead me to think they wanted a wife who wasn't materialistic or "Americanized". Both raised families with multiple children and seem to have healthy marriages.

Another friend of mine who was a flight instructor in the Air Force adopted a baby girl from China.

#7 | Posted by lfthndthrds at 2019-01-10 09:38 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

Because they're betas and want a woman who'll treat them llike they're an alpha.

#8 | Posted by jpw at 2019-01-10 09:48 AM | Reply

My brother had a mail-order Philippino wife. Their whole crowd was white guys with Asian wives. I personally find the whole thing a bit creepy.

#9 | Posted by TFDNihilist at 2019-01-10 10:10 AM | Reply

#7 - the only insightful post on this thread, at least so far.

#10 | Posted by JeffJ at 2019-01-10 10:26 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

- Why are Western men going to asia to find wives?

Because they aren't man-hating heifers?

#11 | Posted by nullifidian at 2019-01-10 10:39 AM | Reply | Funny: 2 | Newsworthy 3

Because they aren't man-hating heifers?

#11 | POSTED BY NULLIFIDIAN

If that's all you find yourself around you need to reconsider your life choices.

#12 | Posted by jpw at 2019-01-10 10:51 AM | Reply

they think they are "buying" a woman who will obey them and be subservient to them. #5 | POSTED BY DANNI

Wow, that is offensive.

The way I've heard it described to me, in the context of why so many guys end up married to a local woman out of their league (by American standards) by the end of their Japan or Philippines tour, is that American men respect and support their significant others more than the average domestic Asian men in those countries, due to cultural differences. We aren't bound by traditional rigid enforcement of gender roles in the home. American men are more likely to support their wives getting an education and support them entering the workforce if they are inclined to do so, and most women overseas know how to cook...which is a huge plus ;).

#13 | Posted by GOnoles92 at 2019-01-10 10:52 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 2

Pretty obviously, they think they are "buying" a woman who will obey them and be subservient to them.

It's not always "buying" a woman, Danni. A man does have to work to get a asian woman to like him. They usually dont want to marry outside the race. But they are traditional in the gender role department. They arent trying to redefine what it means to be a woman.

A man isnt looking for a slave (well, some probably are), but they are looking for someone to give them PEACE at home. They arent looking for someone who is always talking about what's wrong with him or feelings or little nuances that women are into. A man just wants to come home to relax and not hear all the noise.

#14 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 10:54 AM | Reply

"They arent looking for someone who is always talking about what's wrong with him or feelings or little nuances that women are into. A man just wants to come home to relax and not hear all the noise."

Heaven forefend a man care about his partners feelings and concerns, right? Boaz, you are a disgusting misogynistic ogre and I pity the women in your life.

#15 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:01 PM | Reply

partner's ^

#16 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:02 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

...someone who is always talking about what's wrong with him...
#14 | POSTED BY BOAZ

Interesting that when Boaz is talking about his partner (presumably, a woman) he uses the pronoun "him".
Closet gay much?

#17 | Posted by TFDNihilist at 2019-01-10 01:06 PM | Reply

Boaz, you are a disgusting misogynistic ogre and I pity the women in your life.

Nope, the women in my life are happy. I've been married for almost 30 years. She followed me around the world and played her role. She raised my kids and took care of home. I provided the living and everything else she needs. It's actually how God intended life to be. And it works magically.

I have no doubt it wouldnt work if she was on this 50/50, feminists, hard to get along with crap. I would have left her years ago. Our arraignment works best for us. My home is quiet and soothing, she keeps a good home. My kids are raised conservative, they have good manners and no ADHD.

#18 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 01:10 PM | Reply

Interesting that when Boaz is talking about his partner (presumably, a woman) he uses the pronoun "him".

No, it's you who are having reading comprehension. I was talking about the woman always having a problem with "him", the man.

#19 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 01:11 PM | Reply

^^^Comprehension "problems"^^^

#20 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 01:11 PM | Reply

"Nope, the women in my life are happy... and I better not hear otherwise!"

-Boaz the Ogre

#21 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:16 PM | Reply | Funny: 3

Question: if you don't believe in women discussing their feelings, how do you know whether they are happy or not? Also, do you even care?

Inquiring minds want to know!

#22 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:18 PM | Reply

and I better not hear otherwise!"

I'm not like that.

Question: if you don't believe in women discussing their feelings, how do you know whether they are happy or not? Also, do you even care?

My wife knows when to discuss something with me. I think she has learned over the years of being with me to be frank and cut to the chase, and we can discuss things. Ignoring me and dropping hints do not work as I dont pay them attention and she knows this. We talked about these things when we got married and discovered we do agree on the type of lifestyle we have. We agreed on Gender roles. We agree that life isnt 50/50 between couples. That doesnt work. There are somethings a woman is good at and somethings a man is good at. It works for us.

I'm of the opinion that women who want this 50/50 crap just do not want to do the hard work of being a woman in a traditional relationship. Not saying being a man is easier, but today's woman is just lazy when it comes to traditional woman-ing..

#23 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 01:34 PM | Reply

Ignoring me and dropping hints do not work as I dont pay them attention and she knows this.

Early in our marriage my wife would sometimes get mad at me seemingly for no reason. It was because she was dropping subtle hints and I wasn't picking up on them. It wasn't fair on her part. Conversely, I would go off on her over something rather trivial and she'd be caught off-guard. In those instances it was a series of things that she said or did that bothered me and I kept quiet and when I finally went off it was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back. We have both gotten much better at communicating with each other.

To anyone on this site who is young and isn't married yet or is very recently married I will say this: Being in love won't make a marriage work by itself. Marriage is work. It's really hard work. Understand that going in and dedicate yourself to working hard at the marriage.

#24 | Posted by JeffJ at 2019-01-10 01:38 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

"I'm not like that."

Really? Because you then go on to say:

"My wife knows when to discuss something with me."

....wow. Nice little tyranny you've got there.

"We agree that life isnt 50/50 between couples. That doesnt work."

Millions of couples know otherwise.

"I'm of the opinion that women who want this 50/50 crap just do not want to do the hard work of being a woman in a traditional relationship."

I think the word you want is "slave."

#25 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:39 PM | Reply | Funny: 1

#24 I meant to add that my keeping mum, letting things build up and then going off wasn't fair to her on my part.

#26 | Posted by JeffJ at 2019-01-10 01:39 PM | Reply

"Ignoring me and dropping hints do not work as I dont pay them attention and she knows this."

Ironically, what you are describing is as "traditionally feminine" as it gets. If you don't treat women equally and allow them an equal voice, they either bow their heads and accept a life of servitude and mistreatment or they develop these sorts of dysfunctional communication strategies that you are describing; if they won't let you speak directly, you drop hints, sulk, use indirect strategies that inevitably get misunderstood and produce tension. Or they leave or turn to violence, or what have you.

#27 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:42 PM | Reply

Asian women are used to small penises... or is it peni?

Ask Boaz.

#28 | Posted by Corky at 2019-01-10 01:43 PM | Reply

#24 I meant to add that my keeping mum, letting things build up and then going off wasn't fair to her on my part.

#26 | POSTED BY JEFFJ AT 2019-01-10 01:39 PM | FLAG:

Okay, but what does that have to do with gender roles?

#29 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:44 PM | Reply

wow. Nice little tyranny you've got there.

Tyranny? What the hell are you talking about?

We just decided to cut to the chase and stop the -------- crap before it got started. She knows not to play traditional woman games with me. They just dont work and if we hadnt agreed on this, we would have broken up long ago, to something like "We grew apart" BS.

The liberal feminists has masculinated our women, making it just like a man living with another man a husband has to negotiate with to live with. If a woman doesnt realize her gender role, she feels she is just as the man is and, in my opinion, she loses some of that innate caring that a woman has to be a nurturer and care giver. Being more like a man takes some of this away, which is why we have a failing marriage rate and kids not knowing what the hell their gender is.

#30 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 01:55 PM | Reply

#30

You are contradicting yourself left and right...

#31 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 01:57 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

Okay, but what does that have to do with gender roles?

#29 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

It doesn't. I was just sharing a personal anecdote, nothing more.

We don't have gender roles in our marriage.

As far as household chores go, this is how things are divided up:

Cooking is mostly me. Sometimes she'll make breakfast on Sunday and any time we are making a dessert she usually handles it.
Bathrooms - exclusively me.
Vacuuming - 70% her.
Dusting - 70% me.
Lawn mowing - me.
Weed whacking - me.
Edging - 70/30 me.
Weed pulling - her.
Replacing the water softener salt - me.
Paying the bills - her.
Laundry - her.
Grocery shopping and other errands - 70/30 her.
Managing the kids' extracurricular stuff - 50/50.

My kids do some chores too, although my older son is a freshman in college so he's not around much (it was great having him home over Christmas break).

#32 | Posted by JeffJ at 2019-01-10 01:57 PM | Reply

If you don't treat women equally and allow them an equal voice, they either bow their heads and accept a life of servitude and mistreatment or they develop these sorts of dysfunctional communication strategies

Actually, they dont. Mrs. Boaz has alot of say in what happens in Boaz world. She is partially the reason I'm retired from the military. At 20 years, she said "Enough", lets go home.

I said "Yes Maam" and we moved on. We all have our place and we need to play our role. When we misuse the dynamic nature has created for us, it usually becomes a tragic situation.

#33 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:00 PM | Reply

You are contradicting yourself left and right...

No, I'm not. You are just a nitpicking liberal. That's all.

#34 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:01 PM | Reply

As for me:

Cooking is mostly me. When I'm home. I cook Sunday Dinners. I believe a house should smell like comfort food dinner love on Sunday. My wife is a Vegetarian.
Bathrooms - her.
Vacuuming - her.
Dusting - her.
Lawn mowing - me.
Weed whacking - me.
Edging - 70/30 me.
Weed pulling - me.
Replacing the water softener salt - me.
Paying the bills - all me.
Laundry - her.
Grocery shopping and other errands - 80/20 me.
Managing the kids' extracurricular stuff - All her.

#35 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:04 PM | Reply

"Actually, they dont. Mrs. Boaz has alot of say in what happens in Boaz world. She is partially the reason I'm retired from the military. At 20 years, she said "Enough", lets go home."

A servant with an occasional input is still a servant. Especially when you determine when she can speak and when she can't.

#36 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:04 PM | Reply

No, I'm not. You are just a nitpicking liberal. That's all.

#34 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 02:01 PM | FLAG:

Your post is a self-contradictory mess. You complain about traditional female tricks but somehow it is the fault of women not being traditional? What?

#37 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:05 PM | Reply

A servant with an occasional input is still a servant. Especially when you determine when she can speak and when she can't.

I dont determine when Mrs. Boaz speaks. I dont know where you get that from. I guess it's just your liberal penchant to go for the worst possible way to describe someone when you want to misalign them.

Mrs. Boaz has never been shy to say what she wants. But she also know what I will listen to and what I want. I have not once said "Do not say this or that to me". Never.

We just have a different dynamic when it comes to making a relationship work.

#38 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:12 PM | Reply

You complain about traditional female tricks but somehow it is the fault of women not being traditional?

Two different sentences.

Look, I dont have time to unwind all your liberal programming.

#39 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:13 PM | Reply

"Two different sentences."

....that are about the same subject and contradict one another! So? Which is it?

"Look, I dont have time to unwind all your liberal programming."

Yeah, curse my liberal programming that asks that people not blatantly contradict themselves!

#40 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:18 PM | Reply

"I dont determine when Mrs. Boaz speaks. I dont know where you get that from."

Post 23. I even quoted it.

#41 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:19 PM | Reply

I'm not contradicting myself. I cant help it you cant read. I said what I said and I meant it. I dont have time to decipher the English Language for you.

#42 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:19 PM | Reply

#41,

Nothing in post 23 says I tell Mrs. Boaz what she can and cannot say. She can say what she wants.

What I will listen to now is a different story.

#43 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:21 PM | Reply

I'm not contradicting myself. I cant help it you cant read. I said what I said and I meant it. I dont have time to decipher the English Language for you.

#42 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 02:19 PM | FLAG:

You absolutely are contradicting yourself. In one line, you say that the problem is traditional female tricks and in the next you says that the problem is that women aren't traditional.
Well? Which is it?

#44 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:23 PM | Reply

"My wife knows when to discuss something with me."

-Boaz, post 23

Scary.

#45 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:24 PM | Reply

In one line, you say that the problem is traditional female tricks and in the next you says that the problem is that women aren't traditional.
Well? Which is it?

#44 | Posted by DirkStruan

Oh, I see. Your limited comphrehension skills makes you think the two descriptions of "traditional" are the same context.

How you read that again...

They arent the same thing. Again, I dont have time to de-program you.

#46 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:29 PM | Reply

Anyway,

Good way to derail the thread. I wouldnt want to talk about how far down the crapper our women are going because of feminism either.

Talk about the subject at hand, not about me.

#47 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:30 PM | Reply

We manage our own cars. When her car needs maintenance, like an oil change, she takes care of it. Same for me. I renew all of the license tabs though.

I also take out the garbage and I handle trimming the bushes. My wife has mowed the lawn but it's been a couple of years. I actually like mowing the lawn but once my kids got old enough I'd pay them $10 to do it when I can't.

#48 | Posted by JeffJ at 2019-01-10 02:33 PM | Reply

Cooking - her.
Bathrooms - her.
Vacuuming - her.
Dusting - her.
Lawn mowing - her.
Weed whacking - me.
Edging - me.
Weed pulling - her.
Replacing the water softener salt - NA.
Paying the bills - me.
Laundry - her.
Grocery shopping and other errands - her.
Managing the kids' extracurricular stuff - NA.
posting on drudge and surfing at work - me.

#49 | Posted by visitor_ at 2019-01-10 02:34 PM | Reply

One of my wife's few indulgences is she likes the tub when it's cold outside. We call it "bath weather" and she expects the wine fairy to show up while she's in the tub.

#50 | Posted by JeffJ at 2019-01-10 02:35 PM | Reply

We manage our own cars. When her car needs maintenance, like an oil change, she takes care of it.

I handle all maintenance on all our cars. Well, Ford and Toyota does.

#51 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:36 PM | Reply

#45 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

I dont think that is scary at all, and I dont usually agree with Boaz. I know when to discuss certain things with my husband and I am sure most women do. The reasoning here is, do I want him to agree with what I want, or do I want him to disagree and get angry at someone... We are pretty good at reading our significant others mood and phrasing things in ways that they will react accordingly. I dont always get along great with my MIL. So if she has done something a little shifty that irritated me, I want it to also irritate my husband, that way he sides with me instead of saying I am over reacting and going all mama's boy on me. I will tell him about it in an off handed way when he is already slightly irritated. That always works. *slightly evil laugh here* Sorry to spill the beans ladies, I am sure I am not the only one who does it.

#52 | Posted by justagirl_idaho at 2019-01-10 02:39 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

"Oh, I see. Your limited comphrehension skills makes you think the two descriptions of "traditional" are the same context.

How you read that again...

They arent the same thing."

How are they different exactly? Be specific.

You are the one condemning a traditional pattern of behavior and blaming it, somehow, on the fall of traditionalism.

#53 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:39 PM | Reply

Good way to derail the thread. I wouldnt want to talk about how far down the crapper our women are going because of feminism either.

#47 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 02:30 PM | FLAG:

Is that what we are talking about? Because you are the one who doesn't put up with traditional behavior from your wife... or do you? You aren't super clear on the subject.

Face it, Bozo: you're a muddle headed mess. You can't Make your case for the evils of feminism because you can't decide what is actually wrong with women to begin with.

#54 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:42 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

How are they different exactly? Be specific.

Liberals always say be specific. Like that helps or something.

NO, how about your re-read the post and figure out what I said. I dont owe you anything..

#55 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 02:47 PM | Reply

"Liberals always say be specific. Like that helps or something."

In this case? It does. If you wanted to communicate a difference, you definitely didn't do so. Hence, I have no reason to assume my reading of your post (as self contradictory muck) is incorrect.

"NO, how about your re-read the post and figure out what I said. I dont owe you anything.."

You owe clarity to the people you communicate with.

#56 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 02:51 PM | Reply

You owe clarity to the people you communicate with.

#56 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

He's incapable of that. That's why he says asking for specifics won't help -- he knows he cannot possibly explain the FOX News talking points because he doesn't actually understand them, so a liberal asking for specifics is a futile request.

Its like asking your puppy to use its words.

#57 | Posted by IndianaJones at 2019-01-10 02:56 PM | Reply

"My wife knows when to discuss something with me."
#45 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

Not really, most people have the ability to time their requests to another individual for maximum affect. You learn this at a young age.

Only a immature asshat says whatever is on their mind, all the time, everyday.

#58 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 03:06 PM | Reply

"Only a immature asshat says whatever is on their mind, all the time, everyday." - #58 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 03:06 PM

Donald J. Trump

#59 | Posted by Hans at 2019-01-10 03:09 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 2

#58

Context matters. What Boaz was saying was "my wife knows her place; for instance, she knows when to speak and when not to." This is not referencing some general human capacity on her part but a specific feminine capacity for obedience to and respect for her husband, "giving him peace at home" as Boaz put it. And yes, that is scary.

#60 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:11 PM | Reply

most people have the ability to time their requests to another individual for maximum affect.
#58 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS

In my experience most people are just honest and forthcoming and make requests at convenience. Sounds like you're surrounded by a bunch of sociopaths.

#61 | Posted by IndianaJones at 2019-01-10 03:11 PM | Reply

If you don't treat women equally and allow them an equal voice, they either bow their heads and accept a life of servitude and mistreatment or they develop these sorts of dysfunctional communication strategies that you are describing;

What does that mean? Just because you treat them unequally doesn't mean mistreatment.

Women today are treated worse than they were in the 50's. More rapes on college campuses, more workplace sexual harassment. If historically masculinity was so bad why is it worse today?

All social relationships have a hierarchy. Regardless of what sort of Utopian vision you have, life isn't equal, it never will be.

A perfect example of this is how you, Dirk treat people and talk to people here on the DR, and I expect in real life, you are trying to establish dominance. Yet you can't recognize it, you tell everyone they need to treat people equally, yet here on the DR you don't equally. Its a cognitive dissonance, I don't mind it, its humorous.

Its why socialism and communism won't work. Nature works with a dominance hierarchy bias ...

#62 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 03:16 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

#60 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

Exactly context matters when to speak and ask ... that's the whole thing about remaining silent, there are times to say things and other times not.

Its not rocket science....

#63 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 03:17 PM | Reply

"Women today are treated worse than they were in the 50's."

Let's talk about abortion.

#64 | Posted by snoofy at 2019-01-10 03:17 PM | Reply

In my experience most people are just honest and forthcoming and make requests at convenience.

No they don't, you just think they do.

Sounds like you're surrounded by a bunch of sociopaths.
#61 | POSTED BY INDIANAJONES

Well I am in SiliconValley.

#65 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 03:18 PM | Reply

" Just because you treat them unequally doesn't mean mistreatment."

I was going to argue with you, but i've decided to jump off a cliff instead.

#66 | Posted by Alexandrite at 2019-01-10 03:18 PM | Reply | Funny: 3

"giving him peace at home" as Boaz put it. And yes, that is scary.

#60 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

No it isn't who wants to deal with stuff 24/7/365?

Its perfectly reasonable to have times that you know what you just want to relax....

And if some one recognizes it "its scary".... grow up, get into a relationship you'll figure it out pretty quickly there are times to talk about issues and times to enjoy life even though you have issues.

Here's a hint: "its not scary" ... its mature socialization.

#67 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 03:21 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

In the case of a man I know well, to find someone who won't complain when she is mistreated.
#2 | Posted by Zed a

You mean Donald Trump, don't you? I see what you did there!

#68 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 03:22 PM | Reply

#67

Mature socialization has nothing to do with it. Read my prior post.

#69 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:23 PM | Reply

you tell everyone they need to treat people equally, yet here on the DR you don't equally.
#62 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS

Ah that's your willful ignorance acting up again. Dirk means treat people equally initially. You certainly don't deserve to be treated the same as say, RCade, because you continually remind us that you are a person filled with hatred and prejudice. All good people will give you a chance, but all good people will also treat you accordingly for your deplorable behavior.

Nature works with a dominance hierarchy bias ...
#62 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS

Between species, yes. Not interspecies; that would defy natural selection.

#70 | Posted by IndianaJones at 2019-01-10 03:23 PM | Reply

"Exactly context matters"

And in this case, you unbelievable moron, the context was not Boaz saying "my wife can respond to social cues!" but rather "my wife knows that I am in charge and she should not pester me."

#71 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:25 PM | Reply

Ignoring me and dropping hints do not work as I dont pay them attention and she knows this.
Early in our marriage my wife would sometimes get mad at me seemingly for no reason. It was because she was dropping subtle hints and I wasn't picking up on them. It wasn't fair on her part. Conversely, I would go off on her over something rather trivial and she'd be caught off-guard. In those instances it was a series of things that she said or did that bothered me and I kept quiet and when I finally went off it was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back. We have both gotten much better at communicating with each other.
To anyone on this site who is young and isn't married yet or is very recently married I will say this: Being in love won't make a marriage work by itself. Marriage is work. It's really hard work. Understand that going in and dedicate yourself to working hard at the marriage.
#24 | Posted by JeffJ

Funny how all these conflicts were Jeff's wife's fault.

#72 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 03:27 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

"What does that mean? Just because you treat them unequally doesn't mean mistreatment."

What a nice justification for slavery.

"Women today are treated worse than they were in the 50's."

Citation needed.

"More rapes on college campuses, more workplace sexual harassment."

Nope. Just more reports. Which is a sign of progress.

"All social relationships have a hierarchy. Regardless of what sort of Utopian vision you have, life isn't equal, it never will be."

Point not proven.

"A perfect example of this is how you, Dirk treat people and talk to people here on the DR, and I expect in real life, you are trying to establish dominance."

Based on what? I am trying to make my points, which is not the same thing, your reductionist views notwithstanding.

#73 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:28 PM | Reply

The truth is that Asian women are more likely to put up with unattractive, chauvanistic and sexually inadequate men, than other women, as long as they have money.

#74 | Posted by bored at 2019-01-10 03:29 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

As for me:
Cooking is mostly me. When I'm home. I cook Sunday Dinners. I believe a house should smell like comfort food dinner love on Sunday. My wife is a Vegetarian.
Bathrooms - her.
Vacuuming - her.
Dusting - her.
Lawn mowing - me.
Weed whacking - me.
Edging - 70/30 me.
Weed pulling - me.
Replacing the water softener salt - me.
Paying the bills - all me.
Laundry - her.
Grocery shopping and other errands - 80/20 me.
Managing the kids' extracurricular stuff - All her.
#35 | Posted by boaz

'Funny how Boaz emphasizes paying the bills, implying he controls the purse strings-classic abusive behavior

#75 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 03:31 PM | Reply

the context was not Boaz saying "my wife can respond to social cues!" but rather "my wife knows that I am in charge and she should not pester me."

Nope, that is exactly the opposite of what I said. You read that in there just so you could have an argument. I said NONE of that.

Just another liberal lying to argue.

#76 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:33 PM | Reply

Not interspecies; that would defy natural selection.

WTF? Are you just making stuff up as you go along? Dominance is the main cue when it comes to interspecies natural selection. Become a wolf or gorilla and try to mate with the hottest of the species. It wont be long before the alpha beats your ass or kills you.

It's the same with humans, we are just learning to suppress it. Thanks to liberals. Who got tired of not mating and made up feminism.

#77 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:35 PM | Reply

'Funny how Boaz emphasizes paying the bills, implying he controls the purse strings-classic abusive behavior

#75 | Posted by truthhurts

No, it's what you have read into this. My wife has worked and made her own money at times in this marriage. But, unlike unemployed liberals, I've always had enough money to give to her when she needs it.

You know, a provider?

#78 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:37 PM | Reply

Boaz, the clues are in how you presented that post. her, her, her, me, me, me, ALL ME, me, me

Implying that paying bills, specifically, was something sensitive to you. The classic implication of this sensitivity, i.e. the control of money, is abuse of a partner-i.e. controlling them financially.

Of course, if she has worked and made money, why are you so strenuously stating YOU pay all the bills?

#79 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 03:41 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

Of course, if she has worked and made money, why are you so strenuously stating YOU pay all the bills?

because I do. It's my job. It's not any type of controlling anything. It's my JOB as a husband to pay the monetary bills. Period. It's how we both were raised.

You have just been conditioned to look for the conflict in everything and present it as an assault against women. Feminists have been successful in brainwashing you.

There is no conflict with me.

#80 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:44 PM | Reply

Implying that paying bills, specifically, was something sensitive to you. The classic implication of this sensitivity, i.e. the control of money, is abuse of a partner-i.e. controlling them financially.

No where near true. In my ideology, it's EXPECTED the man will provide for the family.

Sorry you cant understand this. This liberal world has your mind all f*ck*d up.

#81 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:46 PM | Reply

"because I do. It's my job. It's not any type of controlling anything. It's my JOB as a husband to pay the monetary bills."

Wow. Financial control indeed.

#82 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:47 PM | Reply

#82

You people are sick. So glad I'm not a liberal. Your worldview is so wrong.

#83 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:48 PM | Reply

"No where near true. In my ideology, it's EXPECTED the man will provide for the family."

And hey, you pay the bills, you're in charge, right? King of the house and all that. Scary.

#84 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:48 PM | Reply

You people are sick. So glad I'm not a liberal. Your worldview is so wrong.

#83 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 03:48 PM | FLAG:

Tell it to your wife/slave.

#85 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:48 PM | Reply

If anything, my wife has more control than I do.

--- before I get paid, she's already spent 80% of the check...LOL.

#86 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:49 PM | Reply

My wife knows when to discuss something with me.
~Boaz

How many black eyes did it take for her to learn?

#87 | Posted by ClownShack at 2019-01-10 03:49 PM | Reply | Funny: 3

#85,

Ok, Dirk has went off the deep end and he has no more rebuttel. I have successfully kick your mental ass.

Got anymore childish insults?

#88 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:50 PM | Reply

How many black eyes did it take for her to learn?

None. I've never hit my wife.

But how many times did your wife hit you before you gave her your balls?

#89 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:51 PM | Reply | Funny: 1

Wow. So much misogyny going on in here!! Haha. Just, wow.

#90 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 03:51 PM | Reply

"Nope, that is exactly the opposite of what I said. You read that in there just so you could have an argument. I said NONE of that."

Okay Boaz, then what WERE you saying, exactly? You brag about your traditional relationship and the FIRST example you bring up is "household peace" and how your wife knows when to speak and when not to. What implication, exactly, should I draw?

1) That you are saying, apropos of nothing, that your wife reads social cues (a statement that had NOTHING to do with the topic at hand OR your prior sentences).

Or

2) You are bragging about how, in your "traditional" marriage, the wife knows her place and does what she is told (which has everything to do with the topic at hand and follows smoothly from the rest of your post)?

It looks to me like you are backpedaling to avoid looking like the regressive you are.

#91 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:54 PM | Reply

misogyny

mi·sog·y·ny
/məˈsäjənē/
noun
noun: misogyny

dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.

Where? Cause I certainly dont see it.

But I guess the liberals were successful in you. Make the other person's way of life seem evil. The liberals have hoodwinked the new generation.

#92 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:54 PM | Reply

"If anything, my wife has more control than I do."

That's not what you were saying before.

"--- before I get paid, she's already spent 80% of the check...LOL"

How cliched.

#93 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:55 PM | Reply

does what she is told

I never said that. YOU did.

Gotta make up stories man..

Like I said, I dont have time to teach you simple language.

#94 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 03:56 PM | Reply

"Where? Cause I certainly dont see it."

How about here, Ogre:

"--- before I get paid, she's already spent 80% of the check...LOL"

#95 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:56 PM | Reply

"I never said that."

Yeah, you might need to reread your posts there, slick.

#96 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 03:57 PM | Reply

Good grief, BOAZ - your "article" is an advertisement for a scam dating site. You have to keep buying credits to talk to who knows who and they just hook you in by telling you what you want to hear. Ridiculous stereotypes about Asian women, for example.

I live in a region that's up to 50% Asian in places and I've know lots of Asian women in my lifetime. They are not stereotypes. They're different individuals with different personalities. Just like real people!

#97 | Posted by Derek_Wildstar at 2019-01-10 03:57 PM | Reply

Boaz, ------------ libs can't comprehend gender roles throughout human existence...

#98 | Posted by Greatamerican at 2019-01-10 04:00 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

Boaz, ------------ libs can't comprehend gender roles throughout human existence...

#98 | POSTED BY GREATAMERICAN AT 2019-01-10 04:00 PM | FLAG:

Whereas you aren't afraid to slap women around a bit, right?

#99 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 04:02 PM | Reply

Damn. Sorry BOAZ. Some people like women who can handle their own ---- and aren't so weak and pathetic that they rely on artificially inflating a man's ego to get what they need. (Too harsh? :-) ) My wife owns her own business, has for 10 years, is launching a startup, partners with me on building our rental portfolio, and meanwhile I have been able to keep my man card! Guess what? She's still a gentle, loving, caring person. Gender roles are for simpletons who don't know how to explore living a fully expressed life. Conversely, aside from my job and leading on our rentals, I do laundry, clean house, do dishes, cook breakfast and frequently dinner! Would you look at that? Getting in touch with my feminine side! Again. Simpleton. Marriage IS NOT 50/50. It's 110%/110%. Maybe We should all pitch in and pay for a marriage counselor for BOAZ and his wife. I'm sure someone can give us a referral.

#100 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:03 PM | Reply

Like I said, I dont have time to teach you simple language.

#94 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 03:56 PM | FLAG:

Do you have time to teach your wife? When she's allowed to talk that is? Or does that disrupt the "peace" of your home?

#101 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 04:06 PM | Reply

the last thing boaz wants is for his wife to become educated on how life could be for her

#102 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:09 PM | Reply

Do you have time to teach your wife? When she's allowed to talk that is? Or does that disrupt the "peace" of your home?
#101 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

Does it matter? You still don't see your attempt at dominance?

Maybe We should all pitch in and pay for a marriage counselor for BOAZ and his wife.

If you need to go to marriage counselling, the marriage is already over.

I do laundry, clean house, do dishes, cook breakfast and frequently dinner! Would you look at that?

And probably have less sex, of course not you, you and your wife probably----------- 7 times a week in your fantasy marriage.

Men Who Do More Housework Have Less Sex
www.scientificamerican.com

#103 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 04:10 PM | Reply

I wonder how much ---- Ms. Boaz has had to eat to avoid disturbing the peace at home.

#104 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:10 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 2

Wife the breadwinner? You're more likely to get divorced unless husbands do this
www.miamiherald.com

Pay attention Gava!

#105 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 04:11 PM | Reply

I wonder how much ---- Ms. Boaz has had to eat to avoid disturbing the peace at home.
#104 | POSTED BY TRUTHHURTS

About as much as you do ...

#106 | Posted by AndreaMackris at 2019-01-10 04:12 PM | Reply

dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
Where? Cause I certainly dont see it.
But I guess the liberals were successful in you. Make the other person's way of life seem evil. The liberals have hoodwinked the new generation.
#92 BOAZ

And you probably never will, male chauvinist rarely change. Your way isn't evil, just demeaning, regressive, uneducated, and 'simple'. And I think you're confusing 'liberals' with healthy human communication and behavior between two fully expressed adults.

#107 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:12 PM | Reply

"Does it matter?"

Spousal mistreatment definitely matters, you regressive freak. I pity anyone in a relationship with you.

#108 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 04:16 PM | Reply

#105 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS

Aww, that's cute. It's also called being an 'effin adult. That should teach this as an intro to life class in high-school.

But, no, my wife hasn't caught up to me on the income equation, yet! But I hope she does this year.

#109 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:16 PM | Reply

Men Who Do More Housework Have Less Sex
www.scientificamerican.com
#103 | Posted by AndreaMackris

arrived at the correlation

There is a difference between correlation and causation, dummy

"Its data were gathered between 1992 and 1994"

Ahh the old 25 year old data trick, well done, dummy

#110 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:16 PM | Reply

If you need to go to marriage counselling, the marriage is already over. - I think there's a pretty large professional career group out there that would disagree.

And probably have less sex, of course not you, you and your wife probably----------- 7 times a week in your fantasy marriage. - BUAHAHAHAHA!!!! haha,*snort* haha Yeah, ok cupcake. You win the prize for biggest projection post of the week.

#103 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS

#111 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:22 PM | Reply

A man isnt looking for a slave (well, some probably are), but they are looking for someone to give them PEACE at home. They arent looking for someone who is always talking about what's wrong with him or feelings or little nuances that women are into. A man just wants to come home to relax and not hear all the noise.
#14 | Posted by boaz at 201

This post really says it all. Women's problems/feelings are less important than Boaz's. That makes women second class citizens. I truly pity your wife.

#112 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:23 PM | Reply

#112 TruthHurts

It is baffling how unabashedly Boaz professes his misogyny. I know a few knuckle headed Trump boot lickers like him. Sad individuals with inferiority complexes who can't just be men, they have to prove they are every second of every day.

#113 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:28 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

I bet Boaz uses the word Stifle alot

#114 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:30 PM | Reply

So many of these Boaz and Andrea posts deserve an "Abusive" flag, but I don't think that it's intended use. lol Damn.

#115 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:30 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

So boaz, how does it feel to have all these ----, beta, liberal weenies insulting you left and right?

#116 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:40 PM | Reply

If I had to travel halfway around the world to find a woman desperate enough to marry me, I would just remain an Incel like BOAZ.

#117 | Posted by oldwhiskeysour at 2019-01-10 04:41 PM | Reply

Maybe We should all pitch in and pay for a marriage counselor for BOAZ and his wife.

No, we arent liberal and are quite happy being married.

#118 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 04:41 PM | Reply

So boaz, how does it feel to have all these ----, beta, liberal weenies insulting you left and right?

I'm used to it on this site. That's all they have, insults.

#119 | Posted by boaz at 2019-01-10 04:42 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

#118 - Boaz

Well, we know you are. Mrs. Boaz hasn't been allowed to speak. Maybe you should leave the room while we chat.

#120 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-10 04:42 PM | Reply

So boaz, how does it feel to have all these ----, beta, liberal weenies insulting you left and right?
I'm used to it on this site. That's all they have, insults.
#119 | Posted by boaz

makes you kind of a --------- don't it?

#121 | Posted by truthhurts at 2019-01-10 04:46 PM | Reply

No, we arent liberal and are quite happy being married.

#118 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 04:41 PM | FLAG:

Discuss her feelings a lot, do you?

#122 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 04:54 PM | Reply

That's all they have, insults.

#119 | POSTED BY BOAZ AT 2019-01-10 04:42 PM | FLAG:

Well, that and facts, logic, and internal consistency.

#123 | Posted by DirkStruan at 2019-01-10 04:54 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 2

That's all they have, insults.
#119 | POSTED BY BOAZ

Well, that and facts, logic, and internal consistency.
#123 | POSTED BY DIRKSTRUAN

Boaz only understands the insults.
The other stuff, all those biased liberal facts, might as well be Klingon Opera.

#124 | Posted by snoofy at 2019-01-10 05:11 PM | Reply

Its why socialism and communism won't work. Nature works with a dominance hierarchy bias.....
#62 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS

Yea, Nature tells me I can poop wherever I want, however, I live in a civilized society that has rejected things like that.

#125 | Posted by TFDNihilist at 2019-01-10 05:28 PM | Reply

"Nature works with a dominance hierarchy bias.....
#62 | POSTED BY ANDREAMACKRIS"

Andrea, a mattress was last spotted gorging on Royal Jelly as a way to climb the social ranks.

#126 | Posted by snoofy at 2019-01-10 05:47 PM | Reply

It's the same with humans, we are just learning to suppress it. Thanks to liberals. Who got tired of not mating and made up feminism.

#77 | Posted by boaz

Umm excuse me?

How would YOU know how "humans" think? YOU are not fooling anyone! WE know you cannot think.

And YOU are obviously not a human.

And just for the record... I am a Liberal and I have NEVER ever gotten tired of mating.

Seems I can mate and 30 minutes later I need to mate all over again!

And if the female is willing... I can be ready 5 minutes later!

Maybe I am not really a Liberal?

#127 | Posted by donnerboy at 2019-01-10 07:44 PM | Reply

Here's why:

www.youtube.com

#128 | Posted by bayviking at 2019-01-10 08:46 PM | Reply

I will answer from my own experience. As background, I am a white male, 42 years old, educated (MBA), from a middle class Midwest traditional family, great career up to this point and a business owner. I have a networth in excess of $2M (I would say how much in excess) and I would say a 7+ on the looks scale (blond hair, blue eyes, 6', etc). I had my pick of women pretty much my whole life and I mainly dated white women through to my current wife.
Looking back on it, I think I would sum up the situation as follows:

1.) Western women are fat and getting fatter. Sorry, but this is unappealing to me and having a good sex life is important for any relationship to continue. Once you stop screwing, you are headed for divorce. Seriously, a woman's attractiveness is 50%+ weight related. Stop eating so much and hit the gym for cardio (no weight training)

2.) Asian women have a more traditionally feminine shape. This includes slender arms and legs (which tend to be hairless), better quality hair, slender waists, etc. Now, there are some buff crossfit Asian girls and I don't find them to be attractive because they are too manly. I have no desire to sleep with a woman that looks like a dude.

3.) One of the biggest joys for any man is caring for his woman and having her experience new things with him (even if it is not new to you). Like taking a girl to Paris for the first time. Asian women love and appreciate these kinds of things. White women, by and large, don't because they want to be an equal.

4.) # of prior sexual partners. Asian (decent ones) tended to come from more traditional backgrounds so you can find a girl 25-30 that has not slept with over 10 guys. That is nearly impossible to find in a Western woman. Even ignoring whatever STD is lurking in her, I really don't want a woman on my arm that has slept with half the town and has a vagina looser than a magician's sleeve.

5.) Western women have selected themselves out of the sexual market place by overrating their qualities. I don't care how much a woman makes, where she works, what family she is from, etc. because no self-respecting man wants to be reliant on the women as the breadwinner. So, woman are maxing attributes that are meaningless while minimizing those that will actually attract a mate.

6.) Women like Danni - nothing more needs to be said.

I find that Asians get a bad name based on the money hungry types in poor Asian countries dating old, fat white dudes. This is a small fraction of the population of those countries.

#129 | Posted by nobiasposter101 at 2019-01-11 01:58 AM | Reply

My wife owns her own business, has for 10 years, is launching a startup
#100 | POSTED BY GAVASTER

Did you ever wonder why your kids look more like her business partner than you? Probably time you should.

#130 | Posted by nobiasposter101 at 2019-01-11 03:24 AM | Reply

#3 "our women." lol ... it's all about the feet.

#131 | Posted by ichiro at 2019-01-11 05:30 AM | Reply

Why are Western men going to asia to find wives?

Some people choose to buy low maintenance cars...

#132 | Posted by AuntieSocial at 2019-01-11 06:18 AM | Reply

Judging from this thread, pfc.BOAZ can try giving out 1950 style marriage counseling to couples when his other jobs go belly-up (only a matter of time).

I can give better couples therapy using tarot cards. Make more money too.

#133 | Posted by J_Tremain at 2019-01-11 07:06 AM | Reply

#130 - Nobia

Swing, and a miss! lol. But, oh look! Another misogynistic, regressive, -------! Thanks for admitting you objectify women and are a sexist pig. Whew, glad we got the fact you can't handle a real women and are threatened by personal development and success. What can I say? Those who can handle a real women do, those who can't find a wife from Asia. I do feel for you and that in your sexually repressed adulthood you were never able to have sex until you bought an imported sex toy. Does she know that's how you feel about her? Damn skippy. That's some grade a sexist --------.

#134 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-11 07:08 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

As for me, it's all about straight Asian hair. Curly hair or even wavy hair is a turn-off.

Yes I am a shallow person and that's OK.

#135 | Posted by J_Tremain at 2019-01-11 07:11 AM | Reply

Thanks for admitting you objectify women and are a sexist pig.

Yes, I objectify a woman that I want as my wife. I want to have sex with her. If I want a companion or a work-out buddy, I will hang out with a guy. So, yes. To me how a woman looks is extremely important.

Whew, glad we got the fact you can't handle a real women and are threatened by personal development and success.

You an define a woman running a business as a success if you wish. I prefer my woman to be family focused over trying to have material things. I already have a high net worth, my wife bringing in even a couple hundred $K/yer does nothing to change how I would live my life. I guess it is all what you value. If you value making a few extra bucks and not spending time with your family, you choose a great partner.

Those who can handle a real women do, those who can't find a wife from Asia.

That is a disgustingly racist thing to say. I hope you are ashamed.

I do feel for you and that in your sexually repressed adulthood you were never able to have sex until you bought an imported sex toy.

Again, a very racist comment implying all Asians are basically prostitutes. Pretty disgusting sentiment actually.

I do feel sorry for you. Your wife has you as her beta ---- doing the dishes while she is out banging her business partners and you are stuck raising their offspring. To each his own I guess.

#136 | Posted by nobiasposter101 at 2019-01-11 07:57 AM | Reply

NBP101, who objectifies women because he only wants women as a sex partners and not also as companions, lecturing and trying to shame another poster is rich.

#137 | Posted by Gal_Tuesday at 2019-01-11 08:16 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

#136 - Nobia
Crazy huh? When you realize what your words portray you as it's pretty ------- disgusting isn't it? Let this be your lesson, now go apologize to your wife, the entire Asian community you've insulted and demeaned, and grow up. Your attitude towards women is, unfortunately, not surprising.

Again, swing and a miss on work/life balance and income. You really suck at the projection thing, huh? lol That's the problem with you insecure types. You'd probably flip your ---- if another guy told your wife she's beautiful. How very degenerate of you.

Yes, I admire intellect, education, business acumen, rebellion, and refinement. Business is a passion of mine, started my first when I was 17, second when I was 23, and just launched #3 this year with #4 coming in about 3-6 months. Being a business owner isn't scary, it's a way of life in our household. You're the corporations beta, working for wages. Go try running a lemonade stand. Although you don't seem too keen on expanding your worldview, so maybe don't.

#138 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-11 08:17 AM | Reply

You're the corporations beta, working for wages

Go back and read my #129 really slowly this time. I will explain to you what a business owner is if need be. I am sure you wife is proud that you have 4 paper routes.

I admire intellect, education, business acumen, rebellion, and refinement

You also apparently admire strong arms, facial hair, and likely, a penis in your women. Again, to each his own.

I truly do find it disgusting how you stereotype Asian women as prostitutes.

#139 | Posted by nobiasposter101 at 2019-01-11 08:25 AM | Reply

#139 - Nobia

My apologies. I missed your prologue. With all your misogyny it kinda fades into the background. All that and you're still an insecure sexist? Damn, Donnie little hands. I'm sorry genetics didn't work out in your favor in ‘that' department. But keep up the projection and facade.

#140 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-11 08:35 AM | Reply

My apologies. I missed your prologue.
#140 | POSTED BY GAVASTER

You seem to miss a lot, like your wife's hairy knuckles and adam's apple, or the fact that her employees cal her sir. But enough internet for you, better get the house clean before 'she' comes home.

#141 | Posted by nobiasposter101 at 2019-01-11 08:42 AM | Reply

#141 - NOBIA

YAWN!!! Alright. It's been fun but your projection is kinda lame after the third or forth attempt. At least you've admitted to everyone you're a sexist male-chauvinist ass now. When your wife looks through your web history and finds out let us know. Maybe one of the lawyers on the site can refer you to a good divorce attorney. I hear you lose half. But you probably had a prenup, what with your daddy's business and family money at stake. Cheers.

#142 | Posted by gavaster at 2019-01-11 08:48 AM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

I have a Filipina wife. At one time I was a lonely heart truck driver, mid 30's. Literally living on the road. Was making tons of money , but had no life. We corresponded through letters before e-mail days.

We've been married for almost 25 years. We have 2 beautiful kids(boy and a girl). They're both very bright and overachieving. My son's studying cybersecurity stuff. My daughter got a full scholarship. She's studying engineering and she plays 4 musical instruments. I'm convinced they get this talent from their Mom.

I remember seeing my wife at LAX. It was several months after I married her in Hong Kong. Had to do a bunch of paperwork to get her over here.

I saw her at the baggage claim. She hadn't seen me yet. Hadn't seen her in months. She had long black hair, close to 3 feet long, and light brown skin. Her beauty was stunning. And I said in a whisper with total conviction:

"She belongs to me."

I told her that later and she was touched by that. To this day I write it on the Valentine I give her every year.

And I belong to her. Can't speak for others but it's worked for us.

PS:
If you marry a Filipina buy a good rice cooker. Not the cheap Walmart ones. The Japanese make the best. Our rice cooker runs 24/7. I mix it wih soups, stews. I eat rice every day, it's good for you.

#143 | Posted by shane at 2019-01-11 04:44 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 1

Boaz-

Having read through this thread in one sitting, is like to offer the following observations:

First, most people who tried having a conversation with you started off expressing disagreement. It wasn't until you started ranting about liberals and feminists that other posters started insulting you. That's my general impression, and I have no interest in getting into a "So-and-so said this in post X, and that's clearly before I said blah blah blah I'm post Y" type of argument with you.

Second, if your wife is honestly happy in your marriage as you've described, good for both of you. I think it's important for every married couple to find the system that works best for them. Frankly, the way you've described your communication style with her makes me wonder whether she'd be comfortable honestly sharing with you any concerns she has, but also I'm not a member of your marriage and I don't see what goes on all the time. But you don't paint your communication style in the best light.

Third, I suspect that one of the reasons you're so offended by feminists, as you see them at least, is that you think they're telling you how to live. Isn't it obnoxious when an outsider tells you that the way you're living your life isn't working? Don't you see that that's exactly what you're doing in this thread? You're implying that the system that you and your wife have worked out is the ONLY system that works. You've become the thing you seem to despise.

Every real life feminist that I've known would have no problem with a woman choosing to stay at home, raise kids, etc., if that's what she CHOOSES to do. Heck, two of the most feminist, ----- hat wearing, Donald Trump hating, AOC loving women that I know are stay at home moms. The problem for feminists is when a woman isn't provided a choice or the option to live in the manner that she and her husband decide is best. The problem is when people like you come in and say, "What works in my marriage is what should work best in ALL marriages!!!" You fail to recognize the vastness of human experience, the variety of backgrounds and personalities that people have, or that many gender roles are socially and culturally constructed and are not a matter of ingrained biology.

#144 | Posted by dylanfan at 2019-01-11 09:19 PM | Reply | Newsworthy 2

"Frankly, the way you've described your communication style with her makes me wonder whether she'd be comfortable honestly sharing with you any concerns she has,"

His communication style here is to dismiss any concern that he doesn't share as jealousy. Which suggests a disposition to jealousy.

But if you want to see if a woman is at risk from her partner, ask if she maintain any friendships from before they met, can she see friends when she's not with him. How dependent is she on him, basically. If she were to leave for whatever reason, how would she find a place to to. That kind of thing.

#145 | Posted by snoofy at 2019-01-11 10:02 PM | Reply

I eat rice every day, it's good for you.

Couldn't agree more.

#146 | Posted by J_Tremain at 2019-01-12 09:03 AM | Reply

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