Snoofy I'm not saying he is or he isn't (only his shrink knows), but just out of curiosity, do you think Louis CK is a psychopath, since you are so quick to label others as such (I'm sorry "wager" as such)?
Crass he is for sure, but seriously, do you think he's a psychopath simply because of his stance on the issue? Granted it's a routine and done to get a rise from the audience, but I think he's being pretty honest with how he feels about the whole thing.
What about Whoopie Goldberg or Don Lemon? I'm pretty sure both have a similar stance. Are they psychopaths as well, or does that only apply to those you perceive to be to the right politically of you?
Perhaps you're the type of person who excuses themselves to go "potty" when in the company of adults. And that's perfectly fine if you are. You're much more polite than I.
Just realize that some people don't have a ------ only to say the word, they really do take offense to grown adults feeling the need to say "the n-word" around each other. It's "cute" and takes away from a legitimately mature discussion.