#53 | Posted by redlightrobot
Same thing. There is no slant against gays. I'm simply saying that society should not take the view that this lifestyle is normal and healthy. It is not. It is based upon an individual being unwilling or unable to fulfill their gender role. Society has to make the decision of how we want our men and women to behave. Do we want masculine men, or effeminate ones? Do we want men to care for their families, or pursue their base desires? Do we want women to include men in the child-rearing process, or go it alone?
Stating "not normal and healthy" is slant. Can you give any information to back up your opinion? As for unwilling or unable - you seem to believe that gay is a choice - it isn't. Gender role - you mean male = athlete or male = CEO because womens gender role opposes this? As in, the forces roles that you subscribe to are the optimal manner of social engineering? Effeminate is bad and masculine is good? What makes this "so"? Finally, if a man cares for his family does it matter if he's gay or straight? Or are you presuming that homosexuals do not "care" for their family? What is a base desire? To alienate what you don't wish to accept?
My view is that the nuclear family, which has in fact been the traditional and time tested model, makes for the best environment for children and creates a strong, independent citizenry. It makes masculine men, feminine women, and a stabile home environment for children.
#54 | Posted by americanPLYM at 2012-02-24 02:16 PM
Actually, "nuclear family" was an idea introduced at the same time "under God" was being added to the Pledge of Allegiance - around 1954. It's not tradition whatsoever, but a purposefully destructive manner of placing bigotry and selfishness above family.
Fortunately, things are changing toward an honest equality, gay children aren't as likely to be rejected from their families and we can even find employment and housing without obvious bigotry declining us too often.
#53 | Posted by redlightrobot
Child abandonment is child abandonment. Incidentally, the gay community has always found for itself a home. The Castro, Capitol Hill, the Village. There has never been a concerted effort to discriminate against homosexuals when it comes to housing issues.
#55 | Posted by americanPLY at 2012-02-24 02:19 PM
But the statistics and history indicate that homosexual children are far more apt to poverty and suicide due to ostracization from their parents by religious hatred of homosexuals. No place in the animal kingdom does this happen - it's strictly a form of human sociopathy. And if you believe being shunned by your entire community is a choice then you are talking out both sides of your face (ie, a liar).
We've always been persecuted - don't attempt to re-write history.
I've lived through the small-minded bigotry first hand - there are always efforts by zealots to marginalize homosexuals, deny us housing, employment, legal protections, education, etc. That's the very reason gay business are consolidated in the Castro and the Village - which are now huge internationally recognized attractions, btw.