African American males are notorious for their unwillingness to go down on a woman.

Note to ALL non-blacks - if you are wooing a black chick, go down on her. Doing so will more than eradicate any lack of girth when competing with the black man.

Part of it is psychological. Doing the nasty is a personal act - an act of wanting to please her without any sense of reciprocation. Whereas having a huge dick and having the 'attitude' that sometimes accompanies it is an attitude where the guy feels the woman should feel 'lucky' to even be in the sack.

Treat women like they are special and they will respond in a favorable way when in bed. Treat them as a 'lucky recipient' and the condescension will eventually be noted.