OK, Kerrin57, here's some more from that RFK oral history:
Martin:
There was never any consideration given to pulling out?
Kennedy:
No.
Martin:
But the same time, no disposition to go in all . . .
Kennedy:
No . . .
Martin:
. . . in an all out way as we went into Korea. We were trying to avoid a Korea, is that correct?
Kennedy:
Yes, because I, everybody including General MacArthur felt that land conflict between our troops, white troops and Asian, would only lead to, end in disaster. So it was. . . . We went in as advisers, but to try to get the Vietnamese to fight themselves, because we couldn't win the war for them. They had to win the war for themselves.
Martin:
It's generally true all over the world, whether it's in a shooting war or a different kind of a war. But the president was convinced that we had to keep, had to stay in there . . .
Kennedy:
Yes.
Martin:
. . . and couldn't lose it.
Kennedy:
Yes.
Martin:
And if Vietnamese were about to lose it, would he propose to go in on land if he had to?
Kennedy:
Well, we'd face that when we came to it.
Martin:
Mm hm. Or go with air strikes, or--direct from carriers, I mean, something like that?
Kennedy:
But without. . . . It didn't have to be faced at that time. In the first place, we were winning the war in 1962 and 1963, up until May or so of 1963. The situation was getting progressively better. And then I . . .
Martin:
But then it got progre-- started going downhill, didn't it?
Kennedy:
Yes, and then we had all the problems with the Buddhists and the . . .
mcadams.posc.mu.edu
You don't seem to understand that things changed in Vietnam; that JFK was murdered as they were changing (within days of Diem's death); that the war he talked about early in his presidency was not the same war that was being fought after Diem's fall.
In other words, you seem incapable of realizing that, as Stanley Karnow points out, "there remains the question of what Kennedy would have done had he lived: Would he have pulled out of Vietnam or, as Johnson did, escalated the war? Nobody will ever know. My guess is that he would have behaved just as Johnson did, given the Cold War climate of the time."
mcadams.posc.mu.edu
For Karnow, it remains a guess, not a matter of the cerain knowledge you believe informs your view. But, then, what the hell does Stanley Karnow know about Vietnam or JFK compared to you, Kerrin57?