99% of the people who claim to be "old fashioned" don't do shit for strangers on any kind of level. You may be an exception but don't tell me there are 150 million Americans who would feed someone else's kids because that simply isn't true.
#128 | Posted by sully
Really? Is that a product of 30+ years of government entitlements?
I agree with you that less people today are less willing to help strangers, but that's hardly because of greed--it's probably more a question of security.
When I was growing up, my dad would help strangers all the time. He grew up on the streets of NOLA and learned a great deal there. He always knew when there was someone truly in need and we would sometimes take them in and give them a place to sleep, but he would always give them food or money or gas to get them on their way.
But, this entitlement society has created a class of "poor" people that is very unique.
My sister, who is more Liberal than me... Ok, everyone is more Lberal than me, but she is not Conservative from a political point of view anyway. She's unique! She will help stangers in need.
Anyway, She and I have had this discussion going on for a few years. How do you help people in immediate need? Stranded, hungry, etc. I maintain that I give them money and be done with it, because if you start talking to them about their problem it turns into a lecture. She says that she would rather take them to a store and buy them food. Well, she's acted on it. I would just give someone 20 bucks for gas and another 20 bucks to eat unch depending on how many are in the family. She would see a family in a parking lot with a sign saying something like "Standed. Need for and gas". She could never pass them up without going up to them ans grabbing the mom by the hand and taking her to the closest grocery store. Now 10 years ago, they would get a basket and buy formula for the baby and cold cuts and other stuff to make sandwiches for a couple of days of travel. Then meet the dad at gas station and fill their tank with gas. She never gave money.
10-15 years ago, she would come across people truly in need. But, lately, this has changed. There is a new class of "unfortunates". She was telling me about a month ago she was coming out of a grocery store and a woman with a 4-year-old girl stopped her and told her that she was trying to get back to East Coast (They were in Kansas) and needed gas and food. Well, in her tradition, she said, let me help you. She told her I will let you get a basket and fill it with everything you need for the trip. The first thing that went into the basket was liquor and cigarettes! Then TV dinners and other microwavable stuff that's not good for you. That meeting did turn into a lecture.