I find the above a bit hard to fathom. You would limit believers' ability to try to convince others of the validity of their beliefs?
I didn't get across the point I was trying to make. If everyone was prevented from speaking their mind, the world would be a boring place, the DR wouldn't exist, and I might be doing something more responsible with my time... probably not though.
What I'm talking about is different than simply believing that you are right. We may disagree on some religious issues - but I don't think less of you for doing so, and you seem to have similar respect for those who disagree with you.
What I was trying to describe is a sentiment, most prevalent among conservatives and evangelicals, that non-Christians (or even Christians of other denominations) are inferior as humans for their beliefs. It stems from their Zoroastrian-like fixation on heaven/hell and "spiritual warfare". If someone is to be condemned to suffer for eternity by a just deity, then that person must deserve it. Many Christains treat non-Christians poorly or with hostility for just that reason - why be nice to someone who deserves eternal torment?
I understand that this is an overly simplistic line of thinking and these behaviors are not in keeping with Christianity's other points of emphasis - love, humility, and compassion to name a few. It doesn't change the fact that this perspective is prevalent in many parts of the country, and it causes problems for society.
Interestingly, Jews and Christians consider the source of all sin to be what you in your last line claim for yourself---pride. I will not judge you. It is not my place, but I would ask you with a question: if you claim yourself to be proud as hell, would not ending up there be God's way of respecting your free will to choose your own fate?
That's another opinion among more progressive Christians - one that doesn't encourage self-righteousness or any of that. As far as pride goes, it's a double-edged sword like many things. Pride allows you to hold yourself to a higher standard, but in excess, it is certainly a path to the dark side. As far as me being proud as hell to be a heathen - if Kirk is the one who gets to define what a heathen is, I'll stand by my statement... otherwise, I'm just satisfied with being myself.
If you do not choose God in life, then God grants you the existence in the afterlife that you freely chose.
The gates of hell are locked from the inside.
You've said this before, and I think it's probably the only interpretation of hell that is consistent with a loving, just, compassionate, and omnipotent deity (albeit one who also respects free will). If you take the position of the fundamentalists, you will indirectly accuse the creator of pettiness and jealousy - born out of pride - that same wellspring of sin in humans.