"Since the othert option is apparently genocide, I'd say they've got a good case for being the high ground. If you want to get relativistic, the ICC is on HIGHER ground."
I don't see why the two options are "Everyone cowtows to the ICC or we accept genocide whenever it occurs". Its not an honest way to frame the issue.
Putting that aside.....If the ICC operates under the assumption that genocidal leaders are just going to show up to trial, why pretend the ICC has any shot at ever stopping genocide? The ICC can only try a genocidal leader AFTER someone else has put an end to his rule. Alot of people have to die without a trial before the lead killer can be put on trial. To pretend otherwise is silly.
"But it hurts that his excuse was our piss poor and illegal behavior"
There is nothing illegal about choosing not to participate in the ICC.
"Sully, please explain why there are no common standards of behavior that we can all agree on."
There are common standards for behavior. Some are laws (like those against murder) and some are rules (like no shirt, no shoes, no service).
Not everyone is going to agree that laws and rules respresent the last word on morality. I don't think it is immoral for an 18 year old to have a beer, for example. There are billions of people who think it is immoral for anyone to have a beer. I think they are nuts and they think I'm going to hell.
"Would you say that genocide is not bad because morality is all relative?"
No. My own sense of morality is strongly anti-genocide. I would say most people would agree. There are plenty of behaviors that most people on Earth would consider immoral - murder, assault, theft, rape, etc. And even then there are grey areas like stealing to eat.
But when you get into issues like whether choosing to participate in the ICC is "moral" or not, things get blurry. Who appointed the members of the ICC the arbiters of morality? They're career politicians and they make decisions for political reasons. I see nothing moral about handing over a piece of our sovereignty to them and I haven't seen one arguement that makes a decent case to the contrary. Everyone just wants to assume the ICC somehow represents "morality". Bullshit.