I say this knowing that I have been an imperfect father - knowing that I have made mistakes and will continue to make more; wishing that I could be home for my girls and my wife more than I am right now. I say this knowing all of these things because even as we are imperfect, even as we face difficult circumstances, there are still certain lessons we must strive to live and learn as fathers - whether we are black or white; rich or poor; from the South Side or the wealthiest suburb.
The first is setting an example of excellence for our children - because if we want to set high expectations for them, we've got to set high expectations for ourselves.---------
And by the way - it's a responsibility that also extends to Washington. Because if fathers are doing their part; if they're taking our responsibilities seriously to be there for their children, and set high expectations for them, and instill in them a sense of excellence and empathy, then our government should meet them halfway.
We should be making it easier for fathers who make responsible choices and harder for those who avoid them. We should get rid of the financial penalties we impose on married couples right now, and start making sure that every dime of child support goes directly to helping children instead of some bureaucrat. We should reward fathers who pay that child support with job training and job opportunities and a larger Earned Income Tax Credit that can help them pay the bills. We should expand programs where registered nurses visit expectant and new mothers and help them learn how to care for themselves before the baby is born and what to do after - programs that have helped increase father involvement, women's employment, and children's readiness for school. We should help these new families care for their children by expanding maternity and paternity leave, and we should guarantee every worker more paid sick leave so they can stay home to take care of their child without losing their income.---Obama continued
Phoenix...
Either you purposefully are ignorant to what Obama actually stated in his speech, or you're still suffering from Hillary-blindness. Obama covered ALL aspects of this crisis across color lines, including government's role in assisting its lessor citizens. His words stand in direct refutation of most every insinuation and inaccurate portrayal you espoused.
Obama's not classist, nor condescending toward blacks. He speaks the simple truths that our community needs to hear and not the "handwringing first" mentality you seem to ascribe to. He includes all and excludes no one from responsibility especially the federal government.
Its obvious that you refuse to see or hear the truth in his statements for the unmissable distaste for Obama still emanating from your biased, incorrect assessment. Jackson is perturbed because Obama is in the process of making Jackson irrelevant politicvally in the overall black community, something many years too late in happening. If you want to ride Jesse's bus of victimization, go right ahead. I know what my son needs to be successful in America and its much more Obama's path than it is Jackson's public pronouncements of absolution for unforgivable conditions and communal subjugation to destructive practices, ALONG with the ever-mentioned governmental neglect and glaring lack of proper social and economic services necessary for many poor to climb from their lower status to move upward, regardless of race.